By Jason B. Grosky Staff Writer
METHUEN -- Pedro Fiorillo dashes out from behind a bookcase, his
curly dirty-blond hair bouncing with each step as he peers through his
little prescription glasses.
The 21/2-year-old pulls out his right hand, uncertain whether to give
a high-five or a little-kid handshake.
Marso A. Fiorillo looks on proudly and says her son's forward gesture
shows just how far he has come. Just six months ago, he would have
cowered behind her with his arms wrapped around her legs, she says.
"Before, he wouldn't talk or walk," she says of Pedro, who was born
two months prematurely and didn't walk until reaching 23 months. "He
would just look at the children and bounce. But now he explores the room
and plays make-believe and feeds the dolls with the spoon."
She and other Methuen parents credit their children's social
turnaround to the work of Dolli R. Pariseau and the year-old Bridgewalk
Family Resource Center, a place where severely shy children are
encouraged and taught how to interact with others with songs, stories
and playtime. Several of the children have been referred through special
needs early intervention programs.
But the $35,000-a-year program has fallen victim to this year's state
budget cuts and will close in four weeks. Bridgewalk's closing has
parents fearful their children's social progress will suffer a
backslide.
Run by the Greater Lawrence Community Action Council, Bridgewalk has
been open to all Methuen families and meets once a week on Tuesdays in
the School Department building's basement, but also hosts children from
neighboring communities like Andover, North Andover and Lawrence on
other days.
Under midyear budget reductions engineered by Gov. Mitt Romney, the
Greater Lawrence Community Action Council was cut by more than $400,000.
Community Action then cut $65,000 from its Methuen Community
Partnerships for Children program, which administers the Bridgewalk
program. Money used to pay day care for needy families was also cut.
"With three months left of the year, the only place we could cut was
salary and children," said Maureen L. Pasek, the partnerships' assistant
director. "The biggest expense is in salaries."
Pariseau said the program offers an always-changing combination of
free children's programs with parenting services in one central
location.
While the center has evolved into a children's play group, it's also
become a resource center for adults who seek parenting tips from one
another on subjects such as discipline or expanding the diet of a fussy
eater. At nights, the center provides baby-sitting while parents attend
sessions on sibling rivalry, attention deficit disorder, surviving
summer and First Aid training.
For Christine M. McLaughlin, Bridgewalk has been a place for her
2-year-old son, Jack, to meet other children and come out of his shell.
"He really had no interaction with other kids his age, and he was
really passive and shy," she said. "Now he's very independent and talks
much more. Eight months ago, he didn't talk at all."
Minutes later, Jack had a beaming smile as his turn came up during
family sing-along time. The moms and kids sang out, "Jack is here today.
Jack is here today. Yeeeeaaa Jack."
Bridgewalk's closing leaves parents uncertain what to do with their
children, as area preschool programs are already booked through
September when the next school year begins.
Luckily for Christine R. Zins, she sent her 31/2-year-old daughter
Rachel back into preschool classes last week, just six months after she
had pulled her extremely shy daughter out of them.
"She looked like a little kid who was lost at the mall," Zins said.
"She looked sad, and all bunched up."
With her daughter returning to school, Zins said, "It's thanks to
this program."